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In case you hadn’t noticed, I like to change things up a bit. So on Reddit there’s a topic called r/AmItheAsshole, in which people write in, laying out a scenario and then asking at the end, “Am I the asshole?” Then the readers on the subreddit chime in with their determination.

You might find something like this on the thread:

So recently Grant Middle School in Grant, Michigan unveiled a mural which had been painted by a student artist who had won a contest. The mural adorned a wall inside a teen health center located at the school. (So one might assume that the mural wasn’t even something most students and certainly most parents would normally see.) Well, as you might guess, a bunch of nutbag Karen parents decided they saw hidden messages in the mural depicting satanism and celebrating lgbt-ism. Or something…

The mural features caped characters, bunny- and bear-headed nurses and smiling students dressed in brightly colored outfits. One student is wearing a blue T-shirt with pink and white stripes — colors found on the transgender flag. Another student is outfitted in shorts overalls with a rainbow-striped T-shirt and tights underneath. Parents have said that the rainbow stripes represent the colors of the pride flag. Two other students are dressed in tops with colors of the bisexual flag — pink on the top, royal blue on the bottom and an overlapping purple stripe in the middle.

Among the drawings of the students, the artist added multiple smaller line drawings, includinga mask, which some parents have complained is Satan, and a hamsa hand, which is considered a symbol for the hand of God in many cultures, but in this case, some adults have claimed it is a symbol of witchcraft. The mask and hand are both design elements that were not included in the artist’s original contest submission.

“A high school student’s mural angers parents over what they say are hidden messages”, October 20, 2022

So the angry nutbag Karen parents went to a school board meeting where they made supreme pests of themselves. And if that weren’t enough, they verbally attacked the poor teenage girl artist.

Debate over the mural’s meaning became heated — often verging on uncivil — during a school board meeting, covered by WZZM, a local Grand Rapids news station, last week.

Throughout much of the meeting, incensed parents claimed the artist intentionally subverted the mural’s “Stay Healthy” theme to promote anti-Christian messages.

“It’s discrimination against Christian beliefs,” one man said during public comments, adding that it also qualifies as “hate material.”

A woman called for more school counselors, saying, “When adults pretend things that are like real life, it’s a mental illness. We need counselors. We need medication that’s going to help bipolar disorder. Fix their brains.”

The teen artist attempted to allay parents’ fears about her work and her intentions.

“I put my artwork up there to make people feel welcomed,” she said in a quivering voice.

Responding to adults’ accusations that she schemed to include sinister images, she said, “That’s not what I’m a part of. That’s not what I’m trying to put out there.”

The student explained that the so-called Satan mask is a character from a video game and that the painted hand is a Latino symbol of protection. She eventually left the meeting in tears.

Afterward, one woman stood up to say, “I feel that she did a really good job finding excuses to defend the things she put on. None of us are that stupid.”

“A high school student’s mural angers parents over what they say are hidden messages”, October 20, 2022

Yes, Mrs. Karen. You really are that stupid…

One student who identifies as a queer person, and who said that they’ve been bullied by other children, said the mural made them feel included.

“Maybe you should be more concerned with your children’s behaviors instead of what art is on the wall,” they told parents in the room.

Another parent who described herself as a “conservative, right-wing, gun-loving American” admonished parents for going after the student artist so viciously.

“I’ve never seen more bigoted people in my life,” she said.

“A high school student’s mural angers parents over what they say are hidden messages”, October 20, 2022

Oh, I bet if we looked hard enough, we could find some people more bigoted than these Karen parents. But it would take an awful lot of doing…

On Oct. 13, district officials announced that after meeting with “all parties involved,” the artist will eliminate all elements, including the mask and hamsa hand, that deviate from the original design submission that was approved by the administration.

That means the character in the pink-and-white striped shirt as well as the one in the rainbow stripes will remain.

“At Grant Public Schools, we are committed to promoting civility, respect, understanding and inclusion. We do not condone, and we will not tolerate discrimination, harassment or bullying whether in word, deed or on social media,” a district statement read.

“A high school student’s mural angers parents over what they say are hidden messages”, October 20, 2022

Actually, if you capitulated to the Karen parents and gave them what they demanded, then you just proved that you will tolerate discrimination, harassment, and bullying, guys. You gave into the hecklers and their screaming nonsense. Good job!

In case you’re keeping score, the nutbag Karen parents are the assholes, and the district officials are the enablers who let the assholes ruin everything.

Behave yourselves and enjoy discussing whatever you like in the comments below.

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